Thursday, August 11, 2011

Teach Him How To Love...

I'm a man baby!..Yea that macho tone brings us here to this topic of men showing love and affection. It maybe safe to say that most women feel that the average man lacks the tenderness that they desire. Ralph Tresvant gave his version years ago with his hit single titled "Sensitivity" (some men felt he went too far lol). In this present day, at any given wine sponsored event, u can find a group of women attacking this topic. "He never shares how he is feeling"...Well ladies, I took the time to travel to all the men hangout spots that i am personally familiar with. I conducted a survey and the results revealed, that a good percentage of  men are conscious of this very issue..Of course no one actually came out and said this directly (u kidding me)..The motives are hidden and it seems that most were taught to keep it that way, keeping their feelings tucked far away. Can a woman teach a man how to love? Hmmnnnn...One gentleman whose name will be left anonymous said, he wanted to show his woman more love and affection but he just didn't know how to stay consistent with the effort.  Stated he was embarrassed to admit that to her because he feels that, for her to teach him how to love, he is less of a man, a part of him feels weak. Maybe there are some insecurities on the surface..Fear?..A mans pride and ego carries much weight on his image. To be fair, nothing will happen overnight and the actions must follow, if there is a want to change. Whatever the problem is for us men it seems like Musiq SoulChilds'song "Teach Me How To Love" found a way to express our thoughts and ask for help at the same time...This song below sums up how some men in the babershops, casinos, sportsbar and even traffic court(lol) really feel. Women listen up..

5 comments:

  1. I don't really know where your going with this (lol), but I think many of the points are valid! I would rather the lack of fear and respect Today's Man has, but this isn a okay I guess!

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  2. Lol! U don't have a problem in this area

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  3. The point is there are a lot of men who do not know how to love and are getting involved in relationships and not being successful (women as well). It's important when deciding to be involved with someone that "WE ALL" take a moment to heal ourselves from past emotional issues or at least acknowledge them. In my experience being with a man who did not have a father figure or someone to show him how to love, affected our relationship and his ability to know how to love, respect and treat a woman.
    I believe some men are able to look back and say this is what I want to do differently while others have a difficult time findng their way...It's unfortunate, there are many broken homes over this...

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  4. Teaching a man how to love really isn’t hard if the male is willing to study his woman this also applies the woman to show him. Her actions, moods, and personality, will all begin to speak to you if your really are interested in pleasing her. Some woman give it their all once they are attracted to the man. Others may hold back just to see want he really wants out of a relationship. A woman that really knows what she wants from a man will express what her needs are. Communication plays a huge part in pleasing her. She may be the woman that has it together and just want a man by her side to be there for her. To simplify it conversation, compliments, caressing, and attentiveness quality time, is what will help you to bond with this woman. Also little things like get flowers, and doing things she likes to do will when her heart as well. The relationship should not be a one way street if she is really into to her man she probably would have already been attentive to the him.

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